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2.09.2007, 21:12
how misunderstandings comes: i saw this interesting n kinda true sentence on the net and somewhere in a shop b4, it goes: "a friend is one who will listen attentively even when you are not saying anything." somepeople just cant say things out,no matter how upset within her, and when one is moody,they didnt feel like talking actually. and so misunderstanding comes. instead of askin "are u ok?" we say "see, attitude agn" so why not next time,try to think positive abt ur frens.during people's most vulnerable and upset moments ,u can be the one making big impact and great help to them, or tear them down even worst. thats human. its hard to say encouraging words yet easy to say discouraging sentences to tear ppl down. jux like its hard to build a building, it takes days and hard work, yet so easy to tear down a building, jux a bomb set in it, press a button, and thr it goes. so next time before you speak, think of: consequences other's feelings and get the facts right first. Labels: my point of view. |
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